…And Growing Still

Dear Friend,

I am still growing.

You are still growing. ⁣

We are still growing.




No matter your unique circumstances, we are all still baby plants in a greenhouse growing alongside each other.⁣ As much as it can feel like it, no one has truly “arrived” or “made it”.

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Yes, we, as individuals, are unique, and our circumstances, situations, trials, and struggles will look and are different. ⁣

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We are all different ages, have different amounts of years of experience, and are in different places in our walks with Christ.⁣

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But when I imagine myself and EVERYONE around me as a tiny plant in need of sunshine, some water, good soil, and strong roots it helps me combat some of my temptation towards perfectionism. ⁣

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For some, maybe the perfectionist spirit is generational. Maybe it stems from fear or trauma. Maybe mental health comes into play. ⁣

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Friend, know that whatever fuels the urge to do things OR a one certain thing perfectly is very human, natural, and can be, in some ways, a very good thing.⁣

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It's good to want to do our best. It’s good to give 100%. it’s good to do everything with excellence for the glory of God! ⁣

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Jesus never said, “you gotta be perfect to earn My love” or “don’t mess this one up, kid”. 

That’s not His heart. ⁣

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Our Creator is not putting that expectation of perfection on us so why do we do that to ourselves? Why do we put that on others? ⁣

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This is your encouragement to find peace in knowing we serve a kind, gentle, merciful, patient, humble, loving, and gracious King. ⁣

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And He is not surprised by our lack of absolute perfection nor is He shocked by our shortcomings. ⁣

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WE ARE ALL GROWING;⁣

less striving, more abiding. ⁣

I’m cheering for you and growing right alongside you,
Kayla Marie⁣

“‘Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. for my yoke is easy and my burden is light.’”

- Matthew ‭11‬:‭28‬-‭30‬ ‭